If your feeling lost, confused, or just having a lack of identity know that you are not alone!
I spent much of my childhood going through emotional ordeals as a result of not having a father …and at many times not having a mother that was psychologically able to be there. Due to this, I feel like I lost a lot of those prime years where we figure out who we are, self confidence, what love is, who’s worth protecting, how to walk away, etc.
I’m working with my counselor now on finding out who I am as a person. She had me make a collage of pictures on a canvas frame of things that I loved. I wanted to put my friends on it but she said no, only put things that apply to ME as a person. The point was to figure out who I am as a separate entity. After finishing my collage, it felt good to look at something I created that was a part of me. I will take a picture and post below. The collage may be a good idea for you too if you are visual, artsy, and just enjoy doing an affordable craft that teaches you something!
The more I learn about getting to know myself the more I will post on here and share it with you. ❤