Everything right now feels heavy. I went to my final divorce court hearing. It was supposed to be completely over. However, I found out my x filed the paperwork too early 😦 . I had not yet moved out of the house before he filed for separation. Learn from the mistake and DO NOT do that. It voids the paperwork. You must be actually separated before you can file which means living at a different location. My good friend Jordan drove down from VA because she is amazing to go to court with me. We had a nice judge but when she noticed the mistake she was unable to put the divorce through. So my x has to refile paperwork, I have to refill it all back out, then get it to court and get another date. NIGHTMARE. My hair is literally turning white.
I have been really sad about the college thing not working out. I tried going to CSU last semester but had to drop out a few months until semester was over. I felt like I was having a break down. I would cry almost every day. I worked and studied and went to school. I did not even like my major and was only doing it in hopes it was something I “could” do. I think I thought that my love for kids would come back like I used to have when I was younger. It didn’t. The teaching idea has come and gone for me. Often I get money focused and do things for the wrong reasons. I ended up switching from one establishment into another vets office in West Ashley. I work six days a week and am being trained to be a veterinary assistant. That would not have happened had CSU worked out. The schedules would have been impossible. I’m trying to believe things happen for a reason so that I do not feel like I am drowning completely in failure. Some days I fail though.